Distinctly Beautiful

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For this game you will need paper and a pen/pencil.

Background info: This game is meant to build up the self esteem of youth. Sometimes they may look at themselves and see something they don't like. This game is focusing on what makes them beautiful in their own way. It was inspired by a preaching, a movement started by a poet, and Song of Solomon 4:7

Now get everyone in a group, or they can separate themselves if they want to. It would be best if they are separated that way there is no outside influence or anything that may change what they feel (more explained later).

Make sure each person has a pen and a paper in hand. Tell them to write "i am distinctly beautiful because..." a certain amount of times (5,10,12. the more times written the better they can build up their self esteem) down the left hand side of their page. Now they all write reasons why they are beautiful after "i am distinctly beautiful because...". When everyone is done, they can share one or more reasons if they wish. When they have shared, read Song of Solomon 4:7. This usually works best in a preaching.

 


Other resources to help with Self Esteem particularly in girls

Dove Body Image video

Please suggest any others via comments below.

If you like this game, you may also be interested in the encouragement game.



Features
  • Free / Low Cost
Objectives
  • Discipleship / Bible
  • Team Building Teamwork
Space
  • Indoor
  • Large area
  • Small area
Age
  • Primary or Elementary School
  • Teens (Age 12-15)
  • Teens (Age 16-18)
  • Young Adults

Group Size
  • Small Groups (1-9 people)
  • Medium (10-29 people)
  • Large groups (30+)

Duration
  • Longer (30-60 mins)
  • Medium (11-29 mins)
  • Short (1-10 minutes)
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Comments

Great, because our goal is to convince kids they are beautiful. Perhaps some of our young people need to evaluate why they have low self-esteem (celebrity worship, covetousness, self-centeredness, fear of man) and deal with those issues. Propping up kids with stuff like this only validates the worlds messages and is completely man centered versus God centered.
- Todd (28 Jan 2009)

but the bible teaches us that we are LOVED, and i believe thats the message coming across here, i didnt pick up that its about outward beauty, but inward beauty. i can see answers such as "i am distinctly beautiful because i love helping animals" i dont see many kids saying "because i dyed my hair blonde and thats way cuter!" thats not the point of this activity Todd, i think its absolutely great! Thanks for sharing!
- michelle (29 Mar 2009)

I remember doing something similar to this as a youth (about 5 years ago). But instead of being about why we're beautiful, other people in the group wrote why we're special/one nice thing about the other person. I still have those little slips of paper in a special place at home.
- Cassaundra (23 Sep 2009)

thanks for the idea anna, i am a youth leader in a church and i had run out of ideas,lol. thanks again, GOD BLESS!

- ryan (9 Dec 2009)

This is a wonderful idea!
- Ash (26 Jan 2010)

But we aren't beautiful, only Christ is...I don't want to build up their flesh and give them reason to be prideful. Identify with Christ and see that we have been made beautiful because we are in Him.
- Ben (17 Jan 2012)

Ben, of course we are beautiful - as you mention we are made beautiful in Christ, and that is what this game is about - helping people realise this. Amazing things can happen when people learn to love themselves
- Dave (17 Jan 2012)

Also Ben you said Christ is the beautiful one.. We were made in the image of Christ himself making us beautiful as well
- (27 Jan 2012)

You can use this game to teach how our view of ourselves differs than that of scripture. We may see ourself as good but the truth is there is none good, not one. But we also may see ourself as worthless and unfixable. Yet the Scripture teaches that although we are broken sinners we are able to be made beautiful in Christ. Oh What a Savior!
- brad (25 Jul 2012)

Thanks for the idea, I plan to use it with our group tonight but think I will use the scripture from 1 Peter 3 that says our beauty should not come from outward adornment but should be inner beauty and then tie that into how we are made beautiful when we are transformed by Christ.
- betsy (3 Oct 2012)

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